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Monday, February 11, 2013

How To Stop A Divorce - If Only You Knew


How To Stop A Divorce - If Only You Knew

Hey guys,

Having trouble with your marriage? Wanna learn how to stop a divorce before it happen? Here's some quick tips you can take note of before you try to save your marriage. Read on..

A break up is a tough thing to go through when you are dating. But when you are married, a break up is much more than just a break up...it's a divorce. When this happens it's quite common for one of the spouses to want to know how to stop a divorce. With that in mind, here are some things to help you do that.

Does The Marriage Deserve Saving?

Before you actually try to stop your divorce, you need to ask yourself if it's really the right thing to do. Perhaps you still love your spouse and you would like to make things work. There's nothing wrong with feeling that way. However, it's in your best interest to take plenty of time to think things through. Why do you really want to stop the divorce? Is it because you are in love, or is it because you feel more secure being married? The main thing is to be honest with yourself, regardless of where that honesty leads.

The Reason

From here on we will assume that you have the right motivations for wanting to stop your divorce. If you have only been threatened with divorce, try to find out how serious the threat is. That's not to downplay it as an idle threat. Any time the D-word is brought up, it should be taken seriously. At the same time, sometimes people get frustrated in the heat of an argument and say they want a divorce. But deep down, what they really meant is that they don't know what else to say and they just want to be away from you until you both calm down.

So, take some time to find out what's really going on. If your spouse still says they want a divorce even when you are not mad at each other, then you need to start taking action right away. Whatever you do, don't get mad. Treat it in as calm of a manner as possible and find out what is at the root of them wanting to be separated.

Time For Change

Once you know why they want a divorce, you will be in a better position to stop a divorce from happening. However, you also need to ask yourself what changes will have to be made to make things work, and if you will be willing and able to make those changes.

Changes are always hard but if you really want to save your marriage then it's imperative that you try. If not only to save your marriage.

Whatever It Takes

Now, what if your spouse has already seen a lawyer to start divorce proceedings against you? This will make things that much harder, but it's still possible to stop a divorce even after the papers have been filed. You will need to be at the top of your game and ready to do some serious work. However, if you really want to be with your spouse and restore your marriage, then doing whatever it takes is what you'll have to do.

These things are never easy, but don't lose hope. Total honesty, being open and making the needed changes will give you the best chance to stop a divorce. Saving a broken marriage is not always easy but if you really think the marriage is worth saving then by all means.

If you want more in-depth reading on how to save a marriage then grab yourself a copy of "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples mend their broken relationship and it's good to read through it before you plan to do anything else that might jeopardize your chance of getting back together.

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To your relationship success.

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